13 Ways to Overcome a Fear of Not Being Good Enough By Raven Ishak. Oct 26, 2016 Like any other relationship, the one you have with yourself should be nurtured. But over time, life can change and negative situations can trample over your confidence. It can be hard to overcome your fear of not being good enough when you constantly lack self-confidence. You might feel the urge to give up and ferment in your self-loath, but you should try to turn things around and make the most of it. This is why it’s important to find the source of the problem. Why do so many people believe they’re not good enough? Is it part of their DNA? Well, it might be. V ice President of human resources and organizational development for Paychex Laurie Zaucha in an interview with Bustle over email said that from a women’s perspective, she thought that there is definitely a physiological component. Women’s brains are wired differently than men. No matter the gende